Caring for a parent with Dementia? Here's exactly what to do next.
Calm, clear checklists and scripts from a gerontologist — made for the adult children doing this while working full time and holding everything else together. No 40-page PDFs. No overwhelm. Just the next right step.
If you're reading this between a full-time job and everything else, you're exactly who I made these for.
Maybe the diagnosis came last week. Maybe you’ve been doing this for two years and just hit a wall. Either way, you’re tired in a way sleep doesn’t fix, you’re afraid of getting it wrong, and you have about four minutes before someone needs you again.
You don’t need another website that makes you feel behind. You need someone who knows this system to tell you — plainly — what matters, and what to do first.
That’s what these are.
The Library
The First 30 Days Checklist
Questions to Ask at the Appointment
The Calm-Response Playbook
14 Memory Care Tour Questions
The 3 Documents Every Family Needs
The Medi-Cal & Benefits Starter
The Family Meeting Template
The Caregiver's Own Care Plan
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Ginell Butler, MAASM, MSA
- USC Leonard Davis School of Gerontology
- Former Senior Project Manager, AARP
- Former Business Systems Facilitator, Kaiser Permanente
- A decade running her own practice
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Adult children and family caregivers — especially the daughters and sons caring for a parent or grandparent with dementia or Alzheimer’s while juggling work and family.
These are written for either. Dementia doesn’t pick one parent — and neither do we.
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Absolutely — the library covers daily behaviors, memory care, benefits, family conflict, and caregiver burnout too. Start with whatever matches today.